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  • British adults are hiding a collective £69.6 billion from their partners
  • 16 per cent of Brits in a relationship have debts their partner is unaware of
  • The average hidden debt is £8,292.91
  • Over 460,000 people wouldn’t have started a relationship with their current partner if they had been aware of their financial position

 

New research from Direct Line Life Insurancereveals Brits are hiding over £69bn of debt from their partners. People are completely in the dark over their loved ones’ finances, with 8.3 million (16 per cent) of Brits having debts their partner knows nothing about. 

 

The average debt hidden from a partner in the UK is £8,293, which would take approximately 15 weeks2 for the average Brit to pay off, even if they could commit their entire earnings to clearing this debt.

 

In fact, over 460,000 people wouldn’t have even started a relationship with their current partner if they had been aware of their financial position when they started dating. 

 

The largest number of hidden debts are on credit cards with 5.6 million Brits owing an average of £2,109, or cumulatively £11.7 billion, their partner doesn’t know about.  The other debts mostly likely to be hidden are personal loans, which 2.6 million Brits haven’t told their partner about and car payments (2.5 million). In a move likely to cause huge acrimony if it were ever to be revealed, 1.4 million Brits have outstanding child support payments they have hidden from their current partner, at an average of £748.         

 

Table one:  Types of debt for people in the UK

 

 

Type of debt

Debtors

Total debt

Average debt

Credit card

5.6 million

£11.7 billion

£2,109

Personal loan(s)

2.6 million

£12.8 billion

£5,011

Car payments

2.5 million

£6.8 billion

£2,756

Other debts

2.5 million

£20.3 billion

£8,177

Store card

2.3 million

£1.3 billion

£571

Money owed to friends/family

1.9 million

£15.6 billion

£8,037

Child support

1.4 million

£1.1 billion

£748

All debts

8.4 million

£69.6 billion

£8,293

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Source:  Direct Line Life Insurance

 

 

Brits justify hiding debts from their partner, with 29 per cent of those in this position claiming they are trying to pay off the money owed so don’t need to tell them.  Nearly one and a half million Brits (17 per cent) say they hide the money they owe to avoid arguments, while more than one in ten (12 per cent) don’t think it is any of their partner’s business.

 

Married Brits who have hidden debts are even more likely to not disclose debts (30 per cent) to avoid arguments, with 38 per cent saying they don’t think it is any of their partner’s business. For six per cent of married Brits who have hidden debts, it is the fear their partner would leave them if they revealed their debt shame leading them to keep it under wraps, even though they would also be liable for the debt.

 

Table two:  Reasons for not disclosing debt 

 

Reasons for not disclosing debt to a partner

Married Britons

Brits in a relationship Debtors

I don’t think it is any of their business

39 per cent

14 per cent

To avoid arguments

30 per cent

15 per cent

It is my debt not a joint debt, so I don’t need to tell my partner

16 per cent

24 per cent

I’ve always been in debt it’s not an issue

16 per cent

7 per cent

 Source:  Direct Line Life Insurance

 

The research also reveals that married Brits are extremely uncomfortable discussing their finances with their spouse. Married people said they would rather discuss their political beliefs (61 per cent) and even their ‘discriminatory views’ (30 per cent) than their current financial situation.

 

Table three:     Topics married Brits use to avoid a conversation about finances

 

Ten things married people would rather discuss than their financial situation

Political beliefs

60 per cent

Their own medical history

58 per cent

Their own death and subsequent arrangements

57 per cent

What they think about their partner’s family

52 per cent

What they would like to happen if they become incapacitated

40 per cent

Religious beliefs

33 per cent

Discriminatory views

30 per cent

Their relationship history

20 per cent

Their family history

18 per cent

Their views on having children

15 per cent

Their current financial situation

9 per cent

  Source:  Direct Line Life Insurance

 

 

Jane Morgan, Business Manager at Direct Line Life Insurance, commented: “A conversation about your finances can be awkward and if you’ve got debt even somewhat distressing, but it’s important to ensure your partner is aware of your financial position, especially if you live together or are married, as they could be liable for any outstanding debts.

 

“Given so many people are hiding debts from their nearest and dearest, we’d suggest having these discussions as early as possible to make sure you are prepared. When considering life insurance, couples can build in mortgage costs, as well as a lump sum or any debts to reduce the financial pressure you could face in the unfortunate event your partner passes away.”

 

Mike W, (anonymous case study) from Kent said: “Money and debt is probably the one thing my wife and I don’t talk about. My wife is more responsible with money than me, so each month I let her handle the finances and keep a little extra aside for myself. I have a £300 overdraft, but as soon as it’s gone I end up putting things on my credit card. A drink here, meals out, a cinema trip, it just creeps up on you. I’ve racked up over £1,000 worth of debt. My wife doesn’t know or she’d be up all night worrying if she did.

 

“I keep a better eye on it now, but a few years ago I was in about £8,000 worth of debt. I’d lie in bed thinking about it, but we’d just had our son at the time and that comes with so many extra costs that quickly add up.”

 

For more information on life insurance, please visit: https://www.directline.com/life-cover/family-financial-planning

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